An unconditional emotional bond: Love should conquer all without needing hard rules or boundaries.

A conscious commitment to stay: Knowing the worst flaws ("ugly snakes") in yourself and your partner, and refusing to run when life gets difficult.

A conditional partnership: Built on mutual benefit and performance; if conditions change, the agreement can be renegotiated or exited.

A practical agreement: Mainly about sharing responsibilities, parenting, and finances with mutual respect.